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Ohio House Bill 262 seeks to designate the time between Mothers' Day and Fathers' Day as "Natural Family Month." You can find more information via LOVEboldly's Bill Tracker by clicking here.


Chair Click, Vice Chair Mullins, Ranking Member Brewer, and Members of the House Community Revitalization Committee,


Thank you for the opportunity to provide testimony in opposition to House Bill 262 (HB262), which seeks to designate “Natural Family Month.” I’m submitting this testimony in my role as the Executive Director of LOVEboldly, an Ohio, faith-based organization working to create spaces where LGBTQIA+ people can flourish in Christianity. I also serve as Pastor of Blue Ocean Faith Columbus and am a public theologian deeply committed to the progressive Christian understanding of God's radical inclusivity and expansive love.


As a person of faith, I believe that all legislation should reflect the highest moral principles of our shared humanity. House Bill 262, while ostensibly celebrating families, fundamentally contradicts the core Christian values of radical inclusivity and unconditional love that define my faith tradition and that of countless progressive Christians across Ohio.


The term “natural family,” as employed in this legislation, creates a harmful hierarchy among families that is antithetical to the Gospel message. Progressive Christianity recognizes that the divine image is reflected in every person, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, or family structure. When we create legislative language that implicitly designates some families as “natural” and others as presumably “unnatural,” we violate the fundamental Christian principle that all people are created in the image and likeness of God.


Jesus’ ministry offers a clear theological framework for understanding family. Christ consistently challenged the social boundaries of the first century, welcoming those whom society had marginalized and expanding the definition of who belonged in God's family. Jesus declared that “whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother,” fundamentally redefining family beyond biological or traditional structures. This expansive understanding of kinship calls us to celebrate all loving, committed family relationships rather than privileging some over others.


Furthermore, God’s expansive love knows no boundaries or limitations. The Apostle Paul reminds us that “there is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.” This profound theological truth applies equally to family structures. God’s love encompasses single-parent households, blended families, chosen families, grandparents raising grandchildren, and yes, LGBTQIA+ families. To suggest through legislative language that only certain family configurations are “natural” diminishes the sacred reality that love, commitment, and care—not gender composition or biological connection—define what makes a family holy.


HB262's language creates particular harm for LGBTQIA+ Ohioans and their families. By implicitly categorizing their families as something other than “natural,” this legislation sends a clear message of exclusion and second-class citizenship. As people of faith, we are called to be instruments of God’s peace and love, not architects of division and marginalization. The psychological and spiritual harm inflicted upon LGBTQIA+ individuals and families when their government refuses to recognize their relationships as equally valid cannot be overstated.

The Christian tradition has long understood that the Spirit of God moves through diverse expressions of human love and commitment. Many of our faith communities have witnessed firsthand the profound spiritual gifts that LGBTQIA+ individuals and families bring to our congregations and communities. Their love, faithfulness, and dedication to one another and to their children reflect the same divine image present in all families. To exclude them through legislative fiat violates our deeply held belief in the universal worth and dignity of every person.


If Ohio truly wishes to celebrate families, we should embrace language that honors all family structures built on foundations of love, commitment, and mutual care. A more faithful approach would celebrate the diversity of ways that Ohioans create loving homes and raise children, recognizing that family strength comes not from conforming to a narrow definition but from the presence of love, stability, and support.


The Gospel calls us to expand our understanding of kinship, not to restrict it. Jesus's own family experience challenges traditional family norms—raised by a single mother after his father's apparent early death, surrounded by disciples who became his chosen family, and consistently welcoming outcasts into his inner circle. If we are to follow Christ's example, we must resist legislation that creates artificial boundaries around who deserves recognition and celebration.


As Ohio legislators, you have the opportunity to demonstrate moral leadership that reflects the best of our faith traditions. Christians across this state call upon you to reject House Bill 262’s exclusionary language and instead pursue legislation that celebrates all Ohio families equally. True family values are reflected not in narrow definitions but in broad embrace of love in all its authentic expressions.


The God I serve loves expansively and includes radically. House Bill 262 reflects neither divine love nor human justice. I urge you to oppose this legislation and instead champion policies that honor the sacred dignity present in every Ohio family.


Thank you for your time and consideration of these deeply held convictions rooted in Christian faith.


Respectfully submitted,


The Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp

Executive Director, LOVEboldly

Monday, June 9, 2025


Happy Monday and Happy Pride, my friends! If you’ve been listening to episodes of LOVEboldly’s “Coming Out Christian” podcast, you already know that each week Siobhan poses a “Queerie of the Day” (yes, it’s a pun). On episode seven the Queerie was “When was the first time you felt Pride as an LGBTQIA+ person?” I’d have to go back to that episode to remember how I responded, but a related question is, “When do you experience LGBTQIA+ Pride like it is your first time?” In other words, when did Pride surprise you and stick out in ways you weren’t expecting?

 

That question was answered for me last week. I received one of our monthly emails from my TFAM regional bishop, Tim Wolfe,[1] and, as expected, the June email had a Pride theme. Yet, his words were words I never thought I’d hear or read from a Christian bishop. Here is the passage that caught me and held my attention longer than I needed to read the words.

 

“June is here and with it comes a sacred convergence of memory, movement, and promise.

 

This is Pride Month, a time when we honor the sacredness of our identities and the legacy of those who dared to live, love, and lead without apology. We celebrate not only the progress made, but the people who paved the way—those who refused to be erased, those who built altars from ashes, and those who taught us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made.

 

We are Black, We are Brown, We are white and We are queer. We are Trans and We are FREE. Gay, Same-gender loving, Polyamorous, Sex-Positive, and Spirit-filled. We are those who worship in truth, walk in justice, and rise in the face of every system that ever said we didn’t belong. And still, We Believe. We believe in love that liberates. We believe in faith that affirms. We believe in a Church that doesn’t just tolerate, but celebrates the full, fierce, fabulous image of God in each of us.”

 

Reading and reflecting on Bishop Wolfe’s words, I’ve been thinking about the times that the words of religious leaders have spoken to me in the same way. I came out almost 18 years ago. Before that and during that process I was fairly confident that God could not and would not love me. It wasn’t a question. It was a fact. I knew that like sinning, there were certain things that God couldn’t do. I assumed that loving a gay man who wasn’t willing to embrace celibacy was one of those things. God was still all loving, but God was perfect and so was God’s justice. Hence, I should neither expect God to love me nor lament that he couldn’t love me. Several good Episcopal and other clergy and a few more years of experience helped me learn otherwise. When I was at that point of my life I just needed to know that God did and would always love me. Now I need to hear that I can be completely who I am and not only be a devout, faithful Christian, but a pastor and minister.

 

What do you need to hear, particularly this Pride Month? When did you first feel LGBTQIA+ Pride?

 

Let us pray: Gracious God, you created each of us and you called us good. This Pride Month bless our beloved LGBTQIA+ community and help us celebrate ourselves and each other like you celebrate us. Grant us love that liberates and faith that affirms. Create in us hearts that always lead with the love that you pour out on us. We ask this all in the name of Jesus, our liberator. Amen.

 

Blessings on your weeks, my friends! Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

 

Faithfully,

 

Ben +


[1] On June 22 you can hear more from Bishop Wolfe on episode 10 of “Coming Out Christian.”






Sunday, June 8, 2025

Pentecost

 

The Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp (he/they)

Executive Director, LOVEboldly

Queer Christian

 

 

When the day of Pentecost had come, they were all together in one place. And suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind, and it filled the entire house where they were sitting. Divided tongues, as of fire, appeared among them, and a tongue rested on each of them. All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other languages, as the Spirit gave them ability.

(Acts 2:1-4)

 

Pentecost is the celebration of the Holy Spirit descending and igniting the early Christian community to spread the good news. It marks the birth of the church, but more than that, it symbolizes a moment of profound transformation.

 

The imagery of fire is central to Pentecost. Fire purifies, energizes, and brings warmth, but it also has the potential to disrupt and reshape what it touches. The tongues of fire resting on the disciples are a reminder that the Spirit doesn’t just comfort us—it transforms us. Pentecost calls us into a dynamic, Spirit-led life, where we are open to


change, to being moved in new directions, and to stepping out of our comfort zones for the sake of God’s mission.

 

The disciples’ ability to speak in different languages was a sign that the message of Jesus is meant for everyone, regardless of background, culture, or language. This universal invitation challenges us to reflect on the ways we engage with others, especially those who are different from us. Are we open to the Spirit’s work of bringing down barriers, whether they be cultural, social, or personal? Pentecost invites us to embrace the diversity of humanity and recognize the Spirit’s movement in all people.

 

In our world today, where division and exclusion often dominate the landscape, Pentecost reminds us that the Holy Spirit is still at work, urging us toward inclusion, reconciliation, and justice. The Spirit calls us to step beyond fear and uncertainty and participate in God’s work of creating a world where everyone belongs.

 

Reflection

 

Where in your life do you feel the Spirit calling you to embrace change, step beyond fear, or engage more deeply with those who are different from you?


Action

 

This week, intentionally seek out a conversation with someone from a different background, culture, or perspective than your own. Listen deeply and share openly.

LOVEboldly exists to create spaces where LGBTQIA+ people can flourish in Christianity. Though oriented to Christianity, we envision a world where all Queer people of faith can be safe, belong, and flourish both within and beyond their faith traditions.   

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