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Monday, June 2, 2025


Happy Monday and Happy Pride, my friends! As we begin Pride Month and all that comes with it, I’m reflecting on my writing and the reasons I enjoy and loathe writing. Like how parents feel about their children and how pet parents feel about our furry children, so too is how I think about writing. I love writing and I dream about spending quiet days writing for hours. I also loathe writing and can’t imagine anything worse than writing all day. As other writers will recognize, the polarity of my emotions on writing is what makes me a writer.

 

Lately, I’ve been considering consolidating 50ish Monday Moments, writing an introduction, finding someone to append a forward, and publishing it as a book. Including this piece, there are approximately 186 Monday Moments and while they all have something of a theme, no more than 30-40 are part of series. A major piece of the work needed would be cataloging them and choosing which essays make the book. A second trouble is that they are saved by date rather than title. But all that aside, would you purchase and read a collection of Monday Moments?

 

Monday Moments are, usually, the one piece I can reliably write each week. I often try writing other essays including op-eds and opinion pieces for a variety of publications, but some days and some weeks I encounter the worst writer’s block or, perhaps more accurately, writer’s apathy. The tricks and tips for beating writer’s block and writer’s apathy are legion and I’ve never found them particularly helpful. I just get in the writing mood and have to write. It happened this morning. I was on a call listening to briefings on one or another of the terrible bills going through the statehouse and something triggered the part of my mind that leads my writing. By the end of the call I had two-thirds of a serviceable first draft on a topic that had nothing at all to do with the call. That’s how writing works for me. I tell my congregation that while I normally don’t physically write my message (sermon) until Friday or Saturday, I’ve been writing it all week as I meld my idea for the message with my thoughts. Then, when my brain is too full of ideas, they fall out on paper.

 

I have several friends who can write at length with little prompting. Their drafts may not be the pinnacle of prose in the English language, but like my draft during the call, its serviceable and will form the foundation of second, third, and future drafts. I wish I could be like them and turn out new articles and even new books with surprising efficiency, all the while maintaining their distinctive voice and character.

 

Do you like to write? Do you consider yourself a writer?

 

Let us pray: God, you are the ultimate writer. You wrote the world into being and you declared it good. You authored the story of salvation when your people followed you and when they rebelled and went their own way. Bless our attempts at writing and bearing witness to our lives, practically and creatively. May we all be writers of your perfect kin-dom. Amen.

 

Blessings on your weeks, my friends! Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

 

Faithfully,

 

Ben  





 
 
 

Sunday, June 1, 2025

Pride Sunday

LGBTQIA+ Families Day

 

Kate Common, PhD (she/they)

Assistant Professor of Public and Practical Theology, Methodist Theological School in Ohio

Advisory Board Member, LOVEboldly

Queer Christian


Decades ago, I could not imagine the life I live now. I share my days with a caring wife, two step-kids, and three active dogs who keep me moving. I teach theology at a seminary. I love and am loved. Growing up in rural Ohio and coming out during the late 1990s, I encountered no positive Queer representation. My understanding of Queer identities came through the AIDS epidemic, or the evangelical talk shows my mom put on TV. Images of the everyday Queer life I now cherish appeared nowhere. Worse, I found no affirmation of myself as someone created in the image of God. Messages around me claimed that folks like me represented a deviation or mistake. Yet, the mistake never rested in my existence— it arose from a refusal to recognize Queer people as reflections of God’s likeness and image.

 

Excluding Queer identities from God’s image causes harm, not only to LGBTQIA+ individuals but also to


our understanding of God. Queer lives reveal dimensions of God’s nature. God transcends and transforms gender binaries, God is transgender and cisgender and all genders, God embodies multivalence and diversity in love and desire. Ignoring God within Queer people limits our view of the Divine.

 

Pride week provides an opportunity to celebrate Queer lives, but it also offers a chance to honor the richness of God’s nature. Beloved, you too reflect the Divine image. You reveal aspects of who God is. If others claimed otherwise, they misunderstood.

 

Reflection

 

What steps can you take today to recognize and celebrate the Divine image you represent? Depending on your background and support network, this challenge may feel overwhelming. If you struggle with this, hear this truth: even if you cannot see it or feel it, you hold worth and dignity. You, too, are made in the image of God.

 

Action

 

If attending a Pride event this week or month, I encourage you to notice not only the vibrant celebrations but also the Divine presence shining through those around you. What do you learn about God during this celebration?

 
 
 

The sponsor of several hateful bills, Representative Gary Click (who is also a Baptist pastor), has announced a public prayer service featuring LifeWise Academy founder, Joel Penton, on Tuesday, June 3, at 11am after the first hearing on HB262 (“Natural Families Month”) and before the first hearing on HB187 (“moment of silence in schools”).


LOVEboldly is considering holding our own service at the same time. If you are interested in attending, please contact Ben at bhuelskamp@loveboldly.net ASAP. Depending on interest, we will announce details of the action by the end of the weekend.


Thanks!

 
 
 

LOVEboldly exists to create spaces where LGBTQIA+ people can flourish in Christianity. Though oriented to Christianity, we envision a world where all Queer people of faith can be safe, belong, and flourish both within and beyond their faith traditions.   

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